Welcome to the October edition of the Whetstone Newsletter!
This month we’ve got articles on what it means to be a man, how affairs begin, Luther’s “modern” view of marriage, and mobile technology in the home. I’ve also linked to a fantastic interview with a former Navy Seal and a video on how everything you know about time management is wrong.
Articles of the Month
Rory shares, “some of the places where I screwed up”, and offers a great contrast between what our society thinks makes a man and what a “real” man is. Check out the video below for more about Rory including a cool story from his childhood and his male influences.
One of the great misconceptions about affairs is that they begin with sex. Affairs do not begin with sex.
Tim expands on the 6 “e’s” of extra-marital affairs that Tommy Nelson uses to describe the “ease” with which they begin. Eliminate, Encounter, Enjoy, Expedite, Express, Experience. If you find yourself on the E-Train, get off at all costs! Find a trusted friend and get some help and counsel from them.
A short but interesting read on how Martin and Katie’s marriage was much more “progressive” in it’s day. Stay tuned for November’s podcast of the month for more on Luther and the Reformation.
Digital leash, Crackberry, Iphone, Android. All terms synonymous with technology that frees us, yet has imprisoned us more than we want to admit. Marshall writes on 2 lies that keep us chained to our phones when we should be present with those around us. The lies that the world needs me and that I need the world. Here’s my challenge to you: Start a phone free zone or time in your house. Phone free in the kitchen or at dinner time. Because, “Undivided, undistracted attention is a precious commodity and gift today.”
Podcast of the Month
230 pound ex Navy Seal Jocko Willink (click on the link at least to see his picture) is interviewed on everything from his workouts, the Battle of Ramadi, to Seal leadership principles. I found this to be an extremely fascinating interview. Language warning, however not from the Navy Seal as you might expect, but from the host.
App of the Month
BeyondPod – or really any other podcast app for that matter. BeyondPod is my podcast app of choice though. Podcasts are one of the best ways to learn on the go. There are also a great way to expose your kids to positive information and material on car rides. For the next month instead of listening to bubble gum for the brain (commercial music station crap) put on a language learning podcast, history podcast, or bible podcast. In the coming issues of the Whetstone I’ll highlight some of my favorite podcasts and episodes.
Video of the Month
One more item from Rory Vaden! I just finished listening to his book “Procrastinate on Purpose” and found his take on time management to be a refreshing change from most everything else you hear on the subject. The video below provides a great overview of his perspective of time management or rather self management.
That’s it for this month. Please comment below on what is one action step you will take from this month’s newsletter?
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